Have you ever sat back and looked at things and wondered how's they get there? That was my weekend. What was supposed to be a fun family filled weekend turned into something like that ride "The Zipper". You know the one at carnivals, Your in a cage and strapped n and the ride goes up and the cage starts spinning, while the car drops, goes up, and drops again......all the while you feel the need to puke. Well that was my weekend. It started off strong, then she came into the picture. Her new thing is trashing me on her myspace. Well who knows if it's a new thing or not. She sent me a nasty message....you see awhile ago she created a fake myspace on my husband to trash him, I reported her, and they shut down that myspace and then shut down anyone that is linked to the e-mail that created the bad page, so she got deleted. Well she re-built hers which I had no clue till these past few weeks I found out she was myspace stalking me. Calling him and bitching about stupid things, and you know me knowing this I could have starting being a bitch back and leaving her messages but I didn't. I could have de-faced her name with the truth, but I didn't. What she didn't know is I also had a thing that tells you who's looking at your pages, and I knew she was....often. So I typed in her name to search her and there she was, with a new page. She keeps her page private, I never did......I had nothing to hide, but I guess she does. So on her cover page she left me a not so nice message. It was upsetting, and I confronted my husband who was upset but tried to reassure me everything is fine with us and she's just being her. I told him I was done, this is stuff others can see, and I've done nothing to her. So I told him I wanted him to talk to her and to get her to leave me a lone. Really, she just needs to grow up. I mean she has a teenage who I'm sure has a page and I'm sure he understands all this and what kind of example is she setting. You know I don't like to talk poorly about mothers...but come on......he's getting a pretty bad picture of what adults are like. I mean she should be showing him she's a strong independent woman like I know she can be, but instead she is behaving like a jealous junior high schooler who has nothing better to do but pick on another girl.....really come on....
So day 2 he confronts her, a little upsetting because I wanted to be around when he did, but nothing I can do about it. So he's pissed that I wasn't happy he didn't do it the way I wanted. And a few hours later I check her page because he said she was going to take it off. Well it's off, but a new comment is there mocking me that I changed my hair color to look like her.........ummmmm....ok. Nice try. Let me explain, I am blonde in the summer, and I go red in the fall. I've done this for a awhile now, in fact since before her. Sometimes I may stay a little longer one color because it's expensive, but that's besides the point, she has dark brown hair with some blonde highlights.....how is that the same? Again you see my point, she has nothing better to do. But she got what she wanted, it upset me, I want her to leave me alone. I mean if only her parents could see the way she behaves, I'd be embarrassed. So again I went to my husband, he flipped. But not the way I wanted, in fact he was mad at both of us. Yelling, swearing unlike I have ever seen. Telling me her and I need to be a couple......I was crushed. It's not easy to ignore the fact someone has nothing better to do then to mock, make fun off, degrade, and still to this day try and steal your husband. I know this sounds high school....but what did I do, what did I do ??? He feels bad now, but I'm still hurt by the whole thing. And she gets what she wants, in her own way. It's like she plays these games, because she can't have him she feels this need to hurt me.
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